Moving from Devastating Divorce to New Divine Destiny

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When I first got divorced from my college sweetheart back in 2008 after 14 years of marriage and 19 years of friendship, I thought I’d never ever marry anyone BUT him again.  I mean, I was believing God for restoration and knew He had definitely presented the opportunities, but for more reasons than one, that just didn’t happen.

I could barely think about going out on a “date” let alone, ever marrying someone else.  Then it happened, almost out of nowhere. I heard God say “You’re FREE!”

“Free? What in the world are you talking about God?”

Free to move forward and move in your NEW DESTINY!

As I heard God speak, I began to cry as I realized it was time to release at a whole other level  what I thought would be my future and the beautiful end to an Interrupted Life.

No matter how much I tried, no matter how much I prayed, no matter how much God clearly presented the opportunity, it appeared as though, the choice of another human was impacting my life in ways I didn’t appreciate nor ever imagined.

It was really time to be open to allowing God to send my Kinsmen redeemer, so that I could continue on and so that my family unit could be restored however God chose to restore.

I can count on 1 hand the number of men I actually decided to allow to meet up for coffee, dinner or an afternoon outing.  Then out of nowhere, when I least expected it Boaz showed up.

As quick as he showed up, he then proposed and now, it’s hard to believe I’m about to celebrate 1 year of marriage.

In the next few blog posts, I’ll share more about my LOVE STORY and then I’ll move forward in blogging about THE TRUTH ABOUT Christians & DIVORCE and  blended families …

What about you? When did you realize that God may RELEASE you to marry again?



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Prophetess Dwann Holmes Rollinson, is an award winning journalist and Emmy-nominated Producer, entrepreneur and media analyst with more than 20 years of media experience.
As an Inspirational Speaker, Dwann has strengthened her commitment to be instant in season and to minister to the hearts of those who are hurting.
As a former broadcast journalist, she was accustomed to reporting the story but now she’s called to tell her personal story regarding Christians & Divorce. A story that she speaks on from her experience of how her FAITH, has led her through a recent unexpected crisis to a steady place in the midst of the storm, which is detailed in her upcoming book, “Life Interrupted : 7 Key Strategies To Overcoming Difficult Times.” Find out more at

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  1. Kathy says:

    I am finally in that season of being free. I have heard that and I am moving forward. I was only married for 4 yrs together for 6. He decided to move on in June of 2009. It’s been very hard! But God! I have learn through Jesus Christ all things are possible! Reading this blog has givien me hope that it can and will happen in Gods timing. I will say I have chosen to date a few and add hurt to pile and in doing so have learned there was more deeper on the inside of me Jesus required to fix so I’m in process. Thank you for the blog

    • Dwann says:

      Thanks so much for your comments. My experience has been just when you ARE moving forward you recognize, just like you did that there’s more healing still to come. Whew! My prayer is that God will INDEED continue to divinely mend the pieces of your heart and that at the RIGHT time, your Boaz will show up, like mine! Blessings!

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